The Dilemma of a Brown Parent.




Being born and brought up and then being a mom very much in India,I fail to understand how I became a brown parent;until I stumbled upon my teenage daughter's new obsession of exploring YouTube videos that had typecasted me as a  brown parent (Thanks to Superwoman).
The best part was yet to unfold….
My daughter and her buddies were frantically on their cellphones and Lo!came the announcement.
Wow! We’ve got free tickets to the FanFest 2016.It rang no bells as YouTube videos ,Fan Fest were not a part of my ecology at all !
I was  sucked into this quick sand to be an adult escort to my kid and her under 15 friends, being the so called “Yo parent”! compared to other parents.
Finally the day arrived and I was absolutely unaware that I would be an alien to a different time zone surrounded by different species.
My kid and her friends amongst the most sober and underexposed kids looked like the poor cousins to the hyper ecstatic and hyperventilated kids dressed in the most erratic manner.( I was reprimanded not to ogle)Focusing and straining to watch the YouTube stars being presented outside the auditorium.
The heat and the crowd were no deterrent. Me and some other brown escort parents looked  at each other giving a knowing smile and eyes full of sympathy for each other.
The announcement of the arrival of Superwoman lead to the loudest roar and jumps so high that a few Olympics,were certainly ours at that moment (had they been measured).
The mass hysteria was so acute that I entirely missed seeing this lady who had made me a brown parent in the brown land itself.
What was to follow was magic !
As the entry began my poor kids got the first hand experience of being squashed, tossed ,suffocated thankfully not been trampled upon.Obediently and eagerly waiting for their limping escort to catch up.Thus, giving us the privileged of almost last rows.As they occupied the seats to my right, I glanced nervously to quality check the crowd in the rows around them( As if I had a say!)
The ambience,sound effects lights were so enthralling that I could sense my diaphragm,heart,intestine,spleen pound. Realising later that it was the impact on my ear drums that was resonating all across.
As the performers kept coming, I yelled with the crowd to infuse some excitement in my decent gang only to find them staring at me.
“Aunty are you really enjoying? ”asked one with apologetic eyes.
“Of course!’Did it seem like a cry of pain or misery?I wondered.
A very handsome singer with the most melodious voice, almost made me drool. Again causing the entire gang to blush. Hey come on ! I am also young at heart …So WHAT? (I thought) 
You can’t miss the finale of the super exciting evening. The most subscribed and viewed “SUPERWOMAN”. The announcement brought an unanimous cry so deafening and cheer so loud that my aged heart and eardrums had to work overtime to keep themselves functional/sane.
The entire young crowd in a bat of an eyelid was standing on the cushioned chairs (even my coy gang to my utter amazement !). I contemplated doing the same but my hips, knees and ankles refused to comply.
 I stood watching the backsides of all sizes, low waists and high hemlines, then trying to find gaps to get a glimpse of the stage. I moved into the aisle but a huge giant camera on tracks blocked my path. Wow! never seen so much grandeur.
 Honestly I did not see even an inch of the woman. But I have to admit that she was entertaining to the hilt.
My parental observation was …
Guys,we have super rebel kids who may not know what they want, but definitely know what they do not want. They are fearless,in bringing their experiments out in the public and there’s an audience for that niche too. So the stage is …where one begins to perform.
The medium, the audience, the ambience and aura was like being on a different planet. Where everyone and everything is welcomed with an open mind.
But a kind reminder to my brown child-it was this tolerant brown parent who escorted you to the memorable evening that we all shall cherish for life.
 ''Long live the Superwoman and Kudos to FanFest 2016''




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